MALU/MODESTY/SHYNESS
Wednesday, August 1st, 2007At times when i got nothing to do, i tend to think something that is COMPLETELY, ABSOLUTELY, UTTERLY RANDOM about life, but of course it is a good thing to do, that way I can always improve myself. N by posting my thoughts here, i could share my experience/knowledge with you readers n i could probably improve yo ass at the same time (Insya Allah).
Menurut gw.. orang2 jaman skarang tu ude kg taw malu. Jaman smakin modern, pakean yg dipake sama orang smakin sedikit dibanding jaman dulu. trus ude dikit.. KETAT LG!!! buseett, udah ketat… TIPIS LG!!! buseeeeet… udah tipis.. rada tembus pandang lg!! astaghfirullah… n smakin moderen orang smakin gak masalah nunjukin kulit, udah gak malu lg tuk sok-sok cantik dipoto n bilang "I’m Cute" (nah lhoo siapa ayoo….) gk taw malu.. (but hey.. I’m no better, please don’t take that as an encouragement!)
umm trus .. apa lagi rata2 ce2.. prubahannya disejarah tu drastis bgt.. di banding rata2 co..
apa lagi rata2 orang barat, dipegang2 jg its no big deal for them
but of course the guys won’t complain.. n u kno why.. its guys! Bad guys..
being immodest is aint good u kno…
And i’m here to tell you that IT IS A WRONG THING TO DO, WHYY?? CUZ malu/modesty is an act of COVERING, it usually covers your bad characters n etc.
by having no MALU/modesty basically you’re showing the world about
ur defects.
have you ever heard of " silence is golden / silence is wisdom " the more you talk the more you show who you are, and the easier for people to judge you.. n the easier people to spot your defects
ANYWAY
THATS WHY IF YOU GO TO COURT YOUR LAWYER WOULD TELL YOU " THE LEAST INFO YOU GIVE THEM, THE SAFER YOU ARE" simply tell only what they ask.
Islamic way of living is living life modestly
islam is about modesty..
thats why muslim dress-code is to cover the aurat, wether it for male or female. I really admire those Muslim girls who dress up properly (with hijab) in a non muslim country. respect!
wearing hijab is also an act of covering, being modest is very beneficial for yo own self, protecting from those evil gazes, evil stares…
anyhow apart from all those examples I have given you…
it is MOST (most = more than "more") important to know that modesty if part of our IMAN
here are the hadith i found about modesty.. (NOTE: PLEASE CONFIRM CUZ I"M NO IMAM! N I’m no perfect yoo…)
682. `Imran bin Husain (May Allah be pleased with them) reported: Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "Shyness does not bring anything except good.”
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
681. Ibn `Umar (May Allah be pleased with them) reported: Messenger of Allah (PBUH) passed by a man of the Ansar who was admonishing his brother regarding shyness. Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "Leave him alone, for modesty is a part of Iman.”
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
I sincerely do apologize if I offended anyone in any way, but please remember it is not my intention to offend anyone, I only want to share my thoughts n hopefully people would take it positively
Peace!